Â And why the colour of their skin or where they were born should be any concern to anyone else but themselves. Itâs better to show her that youâre considerate of what else is going on for her rather than waiting for a perfect moment (that never comes) to say hi to her. Â I am used to being stared at simply because I look different and stand out here in India. Then I want you to pause and wait for her to fully realize âa man is talking to meâ before you continue speaking with her. Sometimes you may need to use a gesture or say âheyâ to get her to look up.
Finding that balance between being respectful to her and having that edge that helps her to feel the âsparkâ of attraction. It will help you to feel relaxed and help her see you as someone she can trust dating a woman in her 30s. Â The white women in their 20s and early 30s who I know donât seem to have any problem. If she sees you before you begin speaking to her sheâll be more relaxed and you can also checkout her non-verbal signals (is she holding eye contact with you and smiling. Â But it just turns out that I havenât met the right Indian man for ME yet.
â Say, âI donât know about you, but I live downtown. Also avoid clichÃ©s like âyou have beautiful eyesâ as this may well make her think that youâre just another guy hitting on her dating a woman in her 30s. The second thing that happened really took me by surprise... Â From cute groups of nuns-in-training power walking around Richards Park in their sweet pink sarees, to little girls who wave as they pass by me, to uni students or power women and, of course, most Indian men who spot me. .